Love & Leadership

Guiding Your Child From The Heart

Lead yourself and your family into a bright new beginning.
Build positive and loving relationships while maintaining authority and creating a nurturing, peaceful environment.
Wraparound offers many benefits to families dealing with a youth’s challenging behaviors and/or fragile emotional state, from in-home therapeutic services to parent coaching. But what happens when a child’s needs are so intense that the safest, most beneficial option is residential treatment? How can families still work towards creating a positive home environment and fostering positive relationships when the support team changes from inhome providers to residential counselors? Seeing the challenges faced by parents whose children are being treated out of the home, we have created the Love & Leadership program, which focuses on empowering parents into a position of leadership centered around love for both themselves and their children. With this program, you will take part in two trainings centered around the Nurtured Heart Approach®: OPTIMIZE: 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart and All Children Flourishing: The Nurtured Heart Approach.

Who Is This Program For?

Parents and caregivers whose children are in residential treatment or foster homes

Parents and caregivers whose children are being transitioned back into their home

Parents and caregivers whose children are at risk for out of home treatment

Parents, foster & resource parents struggling to manage at risk behaviors in their home

Overall every caregiver/parent who participated in the event stated that they noticed positive changes in how they react to situations that arise and are implementing the skills learned into their daily habits.

Ivette Garcia

Family Support Organization of Essex County, NJ


In 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart, starting from where you are, Alletta Bayer and Sherry Blair invite you to examine your routine patterns of self-communication and values and give you a set of precise tools, examples, and activities to develop a more nurturing, loving, and positive relationship
with yourself.

In All Children Flourishing, you learn the foundation of the Nurtured Heart Approach® and how to apply the teachings to increase positive and peaceful relationships in your home. Love & Leadership program also includes a weekly support group specifically tailored for families whose children who are placed in residential care or at risk for this level of treatment. The best part? This entire program is online and you can participate from the comfort of your own home.

What will you gain?

A stronger sense of self, self-love and selfworth in relation to parenting

Confidence that you can create and maintain a loving environment for your child without compromising your authority

A strong support network of other parents and caregivers sharing your experience

“Parents need to put on their oxygen mask first and restore their reservoir”

~Sherry Blair

What will you learn?

How to replenish your reservoir for inner strength and resiliency

Understand your personal change process

Explain why conventional methods of parenting, therapy and teaching often fail with “intense” children despite the best intentions

The meaning of Inner Wealth™, Energy & Relationships, Creating Success & Changing Your View in terms of the Approach

The three stands of the Nurtured Heart Approach® and the 4 recognitions embodied in the concepts

Different techniques to parent your child while fostering a positive relationship

I learned to cut certain people from my life and became empowered to speak up for myself more and not be verbally abused.


Also included in this program is Daily Doses of Positivity – Pearls of Wisdom, Pillars of Strength, our perpetual calendar designed to increase positive emotion, teach you how to focus on strengths and build your social and emotional intelligence. You will also have access to our private Facebook page for ongoing support throughout your day and a Membership Site.

What people are saying about Love & Leadership

I learned to reset and being able to go in spite of a setback.

Monique H.

I learned how to calm down and revisit the problem later.

Ingrid B.

I learned to be more positive and take better care of myself.

Phyllis M.

Your Investment

OPTIMIZE Package #1*

1 Year Membership
$699/Less than $14/per week!
  • INCLUDES 2 online trainings, 2 books, weekly online support group, private FB group + Bonus:
  • OPTIMIZE: 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart Training & Self-Coaching Guide
  • All Children Flourishing: The Nurtured Heart Approach® & Transforming the Difficult Child Workbook
  • Weekly parent support group
  • Private FB group providing virtual coaching and guidance tips
  • BONUS: 1-year subscription of Daily Doses of Positivity Pearls of Wisdom/Pillars of Strength action quotes delivered via email (free app on smartphones too!)
  • BONUS: Free membership site with handouts, resources and inspirational materials
  • *Required registration by March 1st, 2017 and no later than March 30, 2017

OPTIMIZE Package #3***

1 Year Membership
$499/Less than $10/per week!
  • INCLUDES 2 books, weekly online support group, private FB group + Bonus:
  • Transforming the Difficult Child Workbook
  • OPTIMIZE: 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart Self-Coaching Guide
  • Weekly parent support group
  • Private FB group providing virtual coaching and guidance tips
  • 1-year subscription of Pearls of Wisdom/Pillars of Strength Daily Doses of Positivity action quotes delivered via email
  • BONUS: Free membership site with handouts, resources and inspirational materials
  • ***Ongoing enrollment: You can join any time after June 1, 2017.

More Information

The program was run very efficiently, attention to detail was evident. The content was not too technical, and was at the same time informative and backed by research and statistics. Sherry and her staff worked hard to incorporate videos into the program so that it was not all in lecture form. There were plenty of opportunities for participants to interact and ask questions, which I found to be particularly helpful, as we were participating remotely on our home computers.

The program itself was very helpful to me. Our family had become disconnected, and I was fearful of my eldest child’s behavior. He was causing quite a bit of upheaval in our home, and my husband and I were not able to discipline him or protect our youngest child from him. The program focused on methods that are simple yet not always evident when one is in a difficult situation.

However, when put into practice, the encouraging nature of the program became very easy to implement, and had a profoundly positive effect on my entire family. I was even able to teach the process to my husband, who did not have the opportunity to attend the workshop. My household is calmer, and we have been spending more calm quality time together – because of 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart. My children get along better, and I never hesitate to notice and comment on their positive interactions. My communication has improved with my husband. I focus on the positive, whereas I had in the past dwelt on the negative. Just like everyone, my husband likes to be complimented. By shifting my focus to the positive, I have become a more loving and nurturing wife and mother.

I highly recommend this program, whether or not you are in a crisis situation as my family has been. Change can seem difficult, but with 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart it can feel effortless.


About our Inspirational Presenters

Sherry Blair has served children and families for over two decades. She is the CEO/Founder of the Sherry Blair Institute for Inspirational Change. She began an in-home program under the umbrella of New Jersey’s Wraparound System of Care 13 years ago. She has also served many organizations as a trainer, coach and consultant on various topics. Sherry is one of the first 300 people in the world trained in Positive Psychology under the tutelage of Dr. Martin Seligman, University of Penn. She is basic, advanced and coach trained in Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy and was afforded the opportunity to train at the Albert Ellis Institute while Ellis was still alive. Sherry is an adjunct assistant professor at the University of Southern California Graduate School of Social Work Virtual Academic Center, and a Trainer Consultant for the New Jersey Child Welfare Training Partnership. The Nurtured Heart Approach® is now part of the “brand” at the Sherry Blair Institute. It was introduced to Sherry by her amazing supervisee in 2008 and the change initiative to embrace the approach wholeheartedly within our organization at every level began. Sherry is an Advanced Trainer in the approach and has trained organizations, schools, child study team members, parents, mental health professionals, children and teens. She has served on the Ethics, Research & Global Summit Committees for the Nurtured Heart Approach®. She has authored a number of books and created products that innovatively bring the approach into the lives of the people she serves at home, school, work and play. It is her mission to “nurture the hearts of New Jersey” and beyond.

Alletta Bayer is a Master Trainer at the Sherry Blair Institute for Inspirational Change. She is passionate about developing and delivering curricula for personal and professional development and greater well-being. Alletta champions lifelong learning and constantly draws from research in positive psychology, human behavior, neurobiology, epigenetics and nutrition therapy to create compelling and relevant trainings to help people create the change they want to see. She is the co-author along with Sherry Blair of The 7 Steps to Ignite Flourishing Leaders, Teams and Organizations and OPTIMIZE: 7 Simple Steps to Nurture Your Heart. She is a contributor to The 8 Steps to Lead Change in Your Life and The Power to Change. She is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and holds numerous certifications including Advanced Trainer/Certified Nurtured Heart Specialist, Certified High Performance Coach (one of 300 in the world trained by Brendon Burchard), Dr. Amen Certified Brain Health Coach, and Certified Gluten Practitioner. Alletta is a graduate of the Professional Coaching Course trained by founder, James Flaherty. She served on the inaugural Global Summit Committee for the Children’s Success Foundation for the Nurtured Heart Approach®. Alletta graduated with a BA from University of California, Berkeley and a MA in Clinical Psychology from John F. Kennedy University.

Toni Anne Lofrano has worked with children and families since 2004. She is a Certified Behavioral Assistant and the Positivity Pulse Director at Sherry Blair Institute for Inspirational Change. Toni Anne is a Certified Trainer in the Nurtured Heart Approach® and has been using the approach in her work since 2010. She has also used this transformative approach in her personal life. Toni Anne has collaborated with Sherry Blair on a number of projects that bring the approach to her co-workers and the children and families that she serves. She worked side by side with Sherry to bring the Nurtured Heart Approach® to the Institute and has contributed significantly to the change initiative and to maintain fidelity to the application of the approach. She is the content editor of Sherry Blair’s book Tribal Warriors: Life Skills to Optimize Well-Being for Teens and many other projects at the Institute.

Presenter Alastair Gardiner

With a 25-year career in delivering outstanding outcomes for children and families, Alastair is recognized as a leading international voice in how to create positive change in family homes and childcare settings. As a senior manager within children’s services his remit for troubleshooting underperforming fostering, adoption and children’s residential services has led to National (U.K) Government recognition for his ability to create transformative change in staff cultures while providing safe and caring environments for children.

Alastair is the Managing Director of Nurtured Heart Approach UK which is responsible for overseeing the successful implementation of the Nurtured Heart Approach® across many childcare and educational services in the UK. With his specialization of working with children and young people who display challenging, aggressive and violent behavior, he has been able to utilize NHA to dramatically reduce the number of challenging and violent incidents which occur in the family home and workplace. The main focus of his work is creating environments which can be free from conflict, physical confrontation and restraint. Alastair is a passionate and engaging facilitator who offers clarity to a highly complex and emotive subject.

Alastair lives in Manchester, UK with his wife Lindsey and three children Cameron, Finlay and Brodie.

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